November 30, 2022

Dear Sweet Friend,

Maybe you have spent your life thinking that you are broken in some way and that there are so many things wrong with you. That little voice in your head may constantly cut you down and tell you that you don't deserve to be happy because you have too many flaws and you're constantly making the wrong choices. Society may tell you that something is wrong with you because you don't fit in with the crowd.

I'm here to tell you that all of that is BS!!! Nothing could be further from the truth! You are special, unique, and wonderful, and you were never meant to fit in. You were always meant to be weird. There is not a single person on the planet who is just like you and who has the gifts, talents, and passions that you have. You have been wired uniquely, and though you may have made yourself wrong in the past for reacting to life in the way that you do, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. Nothing. Your differences are your gift to the world, and there is nothing more important than you being YOU- ALL of you.

Forgive and release everyone who ever told you that there's something wrong with you. Let those people go and free yourself to be the perfectly imperfect, uniquely wired, and beautifully designed human being that you are. You don't fit in. You were not made to fit in. You were made to stick out and to shine in the way that only you can.

You may feel like other people have this whole "doing life" thing figured out more than you do or that others understand the purpose of life better than you do, but you are doing the damn thing and figuring out life in the way that only you can. No one else can tell you what your purpose is in this lifetime. That is a gift for you to unwrap.

So anywhere that you've been beating yourself up, comparing yourself to other people, and feeling like a screw up, STOP IT! I say this in the most loving tone possible. Just STOP IT! You are the gift that this world needs at this moment in time, and making yourself wrong means that you are hiding that gift.

Please realize how incredible you are, how wonderfully unique you are, how supported you are, and how deeply loved you are. There will never be anyone else like you, and your voice is important. There are people in the world who need to hear what you have to say. There are people who are waiting to receive the gifts that only you can give. There are dark places in the world that are waiting for your light. Please stop hiding it and just let it shine.

Be YOU. Be ALL of you. Hold nothing back. Tell that critical voice in your head to STOP IT!

I love you, dear friend, and I know that there is so much more to you than you've been letting out. There is so much more of you to uncover. 

Just for today, can you let yourself just BE and see what gifts you might have to offer? Can you follow your impulses and those things that grab your attention so that you can slowly start unwrapping the gift that you are? You will only know who you truly are when you allow yourself to just be and when you give yourself the chance to pursue the things that bring you joy. Those things bring you joy for a reason. Follow them like a light in the darkness. Stop listening to the voices that tell you who you should be and what you should be doing.

Follow your joy. Let yourself be happy. Please.

Much love to you,


P.s. If you would like to spend more time unwrapping the gift of you, I highly recommend Being You, Changing the World by Dr. Dain Heer. It has all kinds of wacky, magical tools to help you be apologetically you. You can buy it here if you would like to gift me with a small commission at no extra cost to you. I am an Amazon affiliate who only recommends books and personal development products that I personally own and love. ❤️

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