December 2, 2022

Hello again!

I'm so happy you are here with me! 😀

Today I'd like to talk with you about how to surrender the "hows" of life to the Universe/God.

We have so many great ideas and so many things that we want to create in our lives, but we get all twisted up about how we're going to make them happen.

"Should I go in this direction or that direction?"

"Should I take this action or that action?"

Often, we think we have to make these big decisions or take big steps to make our ideas and desires come to life, and that's why it feels so overwhelming when we think about taking action.

We can get ourselves so confused and worried about all the things.

I'm here to tell you that it's okay to CHILL OUT.

It's okay to put your desires out there and then to trust that you will be guided to the right actions when the moment comes for you to take action.

Trust me- you can't miss the nudges when they start poking you. 😉

Until the time for action comes, you can just relax and rest in the knowing that you don't have to figure out the "how".

The "how" is not your responsibility.

Maybe you are wanting more money, and you're trying to figure out how to get it.

The Universe already knows that you've asked for it, life is assembling all of the necessary components behind the scenes to allow more money to flow to you, and your only job is to be at peace with your life as it is right now.

If you can find things to appreciate about your current life, you can easily receive the money that wants to come to you.

The way you know that what you want is on its way to you is that you feel really good right now, even before the good stuff arrives.

And when you're feeling really good while you're chilling, it will be such a delicious experience when your desires finally get here.

You can let your mind off the hook and let go of the need to figure out how everything's going to play out in your life, in your work, in your business, in your relationships, in your financial situation, etc.

You will save so much energy by focusing your attention on the only thing you have control over- your own happiness.

You can choose joy right now before your life improves by focusing on the best parts of your life (no need to give unnecessary attention to the sucky parts).

The better you get at focusing, the more quickly all of your desires can come to you.

To recap, your job is simply to ask for what you want (you already do this all day every day), life gets right on it, and you get to put yourself in the receiving mode with arms wide open to allow all of the amazing things that you desire to come into your life.

Just stop blocking and allow.

No need to figure it out. Just allow.

No need to wonder why it's taking so long. Just allow.

Appreciation of the things you do have is the quickest way to allow.

I hope your mind feels more relaxed today as you set it free from needing to figure out the "hows" of life.

I love you, and I will see you again next week! ❤️

Much love to you,


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