May 1, 2023

I'm so happy that you're here! 🤗

I've decided to talk about the topic that is most alive for me right now, so I'm letting go of Money Monday in exchange for a deeper conversation.

I will still talk about money occasionally since I love learning more about it, and there's even a whole chapter in my book titled "Celebrating Your Wealth".

I'm hoping to publish my book in the next month or two! 😀

Today I want to discuss something that I've been wrestling with lately as I've been confronted by about a million of my own limiting beliefs.

In each moment, we have a choice.

We can choose to live our lives from a place of love or fear- heaven or hell.

Many of the thoughts we think, the tv shows we watch, the conversations we have, and the influential people we listen to are rooted in fear.

We tend to feed our minds a whole lot of fear, and we block love in the process.

Whenever we are experiencing frustration, anger, bitterness, worry, doubt, stress, pain, illness, or discomfort of any kind (physical or emotional), we are living from a place of fear instead of love.

We are living in our own personal hell, and we often don't know how to escape.

I've been experiencing this lately as I get closer and closer to publishing my book.

If you are also putting yourself out there in any way knowing that you could be judged or criticized, you know what I'm talking about.

And even if you're not necessarily putting your work out into the world but maybe you think you have to prove yourself to someone in some way in order to earn love, you know the feelings that I've been experiencing.

(If you love yourself enough to not give a rip about what anyone else thinks about you so you don't know the feelings that I'm talking about, I absolutely applaud you. That is awesome, and you inspire me to keep loving myself more! Babe, I'm talking to you. 😉)

When we place our lovability in someone else's hands, we forget our own loveliness and enter a hell of our own making.

I have made my bed in hell many times when I've forgotten my own worthiness and when I've defaulted to fear instead of love.

Whenever I notice that I'm in my own personal hell (when I feel really uncomfortable in some way), I pray a silent prayer:

"Please help me to see this differently."

A shift in perspective is all it takes to receive a miracle- to move out of hell and back into heaven.

When you notice that you are stressed, worrying about something, or feeling yucky in general, stop for a second and think:

"How could I see this from a more loving perspective?"

You will receive the help that you are asking for if you will take a few moments to pause and surrender.

Be very kind and gentle with yourself in moments like these.

The answers you seek will come to you, and you will feel a noticeable shift.

The shift will come first in your emotions and then you will notice a change in your bodily sensations and your circumstances.

You can quickly return to love when you choose to surrender to love.

The love that you seek is within you.

It has always been there.

You have simply forgotten.

Today I'd like to remind you that you can choose heaven.

You can choose loving thoughts.

You can shift out of fear and into love in a single moment.

You don't have to live in your own personal hell any longer.

I'd like to end with a song about ending the struggle by returning to love.

Much love to you,


P.s. If you would like some help releasing yourself from your fearful thoughts, I highly recommend the book A Return to Love by Marianne Williamson. You can buy it here if you would like to gift me with a small commission at no extra cost to you. I am an Amazon affiliate who only recommends books and personal development products that I personally own and love. ❤️

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